Oh I know. So many of these guys I would've left a long long LONG time ago. But I do see some of the guys genually[my spelling sucks ><] care about their girlfriends and want to change. It's a long road ahead of them.

i agree many are COMPLETE TOOLS and dont even give a dam about their gfs so im shocked they havent been even considered to be dumped

I agree with u jojo~I hope big John + his girl make it too!! And Butterfinger I totally agree with u THEY DO have a long road ahead of them!! Anyone have any idea who'll be the next to get the BOOT? My 1st marriage he was a wanna be tool. Ny man I'm married to now is the complete opposite. Let's put it this way my 1st marriage got my 1st out of I couldn't even count black eye. And like an idiot I stayed with him + the beatings I got r nothing compared to other things that happened. I'll give u 1 incident~from his cheating I caught crabs!! We had 2 children + I was afraid of him. We seperated in the late 90's. I may sound cruel + bitter but u know what they say about KARMA~it's a bitch. Well he died a little over 5 yrs. ago so who's the 1 enjoying 3 beautiful grandsons while he's looking up~no way he went to heaven~he went to hell~right where he belongs!!

I don't ask what is wrong with these men. I ask WTF is wrong with these girls. This show is like a train wreck, you can't stop looking. and Sandy, Bravo Girl, enjoy those beautiful babies.

I agree with you madraveN... i try to not understand how these girls can stay with such idiots. However, I was one of these stupid girls. you really believe that the boy will change; if he really loved you he would change. The truth is that if you are bothered that much by his behavior and his inability to basically do anything for you... FIND SOMEONE THAT WILL!! Best advice I ever got and finally understood was that you can not change someone that doesn't want to change. I don't want to put down the show, because I'm basically addicted to the bs drama, but the scary truth is that these boys won't change without these girls making some serious sacrifices first. Anyway... the reunion show should be interesting. Not sure how they could top the guy with the three ex's tho :)

All of the guys were douches in the beginning, but I can see some of them changing. I'm pretty happy with the final 5 anyways..I was sad that Big John got eliminated, but part of it was because he was on my roster that night :( . But the girls are crazy for staying with these guys, but hopefully the Tool Academy will change them

they only one left tht i think truly deserves to be in the final five is Charm. i mean apparently hes so fake blah blah blah but he did make it this far.

WOW I saw on Justin Myspace that Amanda Q and him are dating. Plus right now she is with Stew. WTF she goes for another Tool.